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College visit tips for admitted students

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accepted student college tour /wearing: hoop earrings / knit top / classic jeans / pink nail polish / cross body bag / sneakers /

‘Tis the season for college decisions! Some students know right away which college to say “yes!” to, while others have a hard decision ahead of them. Nevertheless, there are ways to navigate this decision and help your student make the right one so they can enjoy their college career.

If your student knew right away, after receiving their acceptances, which college to choose, congrats! You have the easy road. On the other hand, many students receive their acceptances and start seeing all the marketing from each university and realize their decision is harder than they originally thought. The kicker? They only have until May 1 to make this hard decision! Yikes!

Sometimes you cannot figure out which college to say “Yes!” to without visiting the school. In fact, I recommend visiting the school before accepting anyway. This is the only way to truly feel the vibe of a campus and student body. Each university has its own personality, layout, traditions, and more. Your student does not want to end up someplace where they feel like a fish out of water.

After going through the admissions process with three children, I have visited a lot of campuses and talked through several decisions. With this experience, here are my college visit tips for accepted students!

  1. Narrow your list of acceptances down to your top three. Use criteria such as location, major offerings, cost, campus size.
  2. Once you pick your top three colleges, plan a trip! Many universities have accepted student tours and/or admitted student days. I recommend attending those tours or days. They are great ways to get the vibe of a university and see their program for your major up close. You may even get a chance to speak with a professor!
  3. Walk around the campus before your tour or admitted student day. A leisurely walk around campus where you find iconic spots, major-specific buildings, dorms, and food is a great way to get your own feeling of the school without a tour guide giving you the “ra-ra” speech.
  4. Make a pro-con list during and after the tour. Have your student make a thorough list covering everything important to them from social activities, traditions, research opportunities and academics.
  5. Check out the dorm situation. Are there enough dorms for freshmen or is there a lottery or are they already full? Housing is a consideration if getting a dorm isn’t a slam dunk. Is your child ready for an apartment as a freshman? Can they cook and clean? This is an important factor on your pro con list.
  6. Eat in the cafeteria and people watch. Are the kids wearing merch? Are they happy and socializing? Feel the vibe.
  7. As a parent, note travel to the school. Does the flight require a layover? How comfortable are you and/or your student with that? Is the school drivable? What are prices of the airplane tickets? Will airfare and hotel costs fit into your annual budget? There are hidden costs to schools you need to fly to, so be sure to consider the financial impact as well as time, stress and your students ability to fly alone; possibly across the country.
  8. What is there to do off campus? It is a college town where the school is the town or is it located in an urban environment? Find out what type of location is important to your student.
  9. Wear comfortable shoes for the tour. Nothing makes touring a school more miserable than aching feet.
  10. Take a lot of photos. It helps your remember parts of the tour as well as locations. Be sure to take pictures of important slides if you see any slideshows.
  11. Talk to other students. In addition to in person conversations while you are on campus, you can look through reddit posts from that university, check out TikTok’s and Instagram posts. This will give your student insight into what actual students are saying about the school.

What I wore for college tours:

Well, that’s it! Enjoy touring the colleges your student has been admitted to, and don’t worry, they will eventually make that crucial decision! Once they decide, then it’s the fun part! You can buy merch to wear on decision day at school on May 1 and start planning for the fall semester or quarter. Good luck and feel free to ask me questions! I’ve done this three times now!

Thanks for stopping by!

XOXO

Cathy

How to help your child choose the right college

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Trying to figure out how to help your child choose the right college? You have come to the right place. Decision day is May 1, and if your child is still struggling to pick the school for him/her, never fear!

If you are here, then your child has already received their acceptances, declines, and waitlists. Let’s start from the beginning with the acceptances.

Your child has a list of acceptances, now is the time to go through them. Here is how you can help your child choose the right college from the list of acceptances they have received.

  1. Make a clean list of the colleges your child has been accepted to in excel or a spreadsheet software of your choice. Place the schools in alphabetical order.
  2. Are any of the schools on the list definite no’s for your child? Use the strikethrough tool to eliminate them.
  3. Start going through the rest of the list until you are left with three schools.
  4. Still have more than three? What do you prefer? Eliminate schools based on size, ranking, location, extra-curricular activities, and overall vibe until you are left with three schools.
  5. Delete all the schools from your spreadsheet with a strike through. You should have three schools left.
  6. Can you stack rank the three schools? If not, go through these criteria.

Sometimes you know things about your child they might not realize. Does your child prefer an urban setting or a rural setting? Do they do better in small classes or in larger environments? Look at the list and eliminate any school which isn’t the right setting or location for your child. Perhaps your child thinks a rural environment would be ok, but they love eating at urban type restaurants and going to the ballet, opera, and museums. Would they be happy in a rural setting? Probably not. They might need a more urban, or at least suburban, environment.

Is your child into attending sporting events? Maybe there is a school on the list with boring sports. If going to a big football school is important, eliminate the schools with the worst sports.

Is “going Greek” in your child’s future? Eliminate schools from the list with small or non-existent Greek systems. If they are the opposite, maybe eliminate schools where “going Greek” is an important part of the social life.

Is your child worried about being away from home? Maybe staying in-state or within driving distance is important. Eliminate schools with long flights from the list. Are you from a warm climate and living in the snow doesn’t appeal to your child? Eliminate cold climates from the list, or vise-versa.

Often when choosing the right college, the ultimate deciding factor is cost. How much does each school on the list cost per year? You will need to factor in travel costs such as airfare. If your child really cannot decide, pick the cheapest school. If your child protests, maybe that school should be off the list too!

Hopefully these steps help your child pick a college from their list of acceptances. If they were rejected form the schools they really wanted, and don’t seem happy with the acceptances, maybe consider a community college for two years. Your child can transfer to the school they really want for their junior year. This is also a good option for a child who doesn’t want to live away from home. Maybe they need more time at home before going away to college.

Stay tuned for more insight from this parent of a college student! Let me know if you have questions!

Thanks for stopping by!

XOXO
Cathy

How to prepare for college app season

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Pictured: Arizona State University sign, one of the colleges my daughter visited

How to prepare for college application season

Well, hello! If you happen to have been here awhile, you might be wondering why I am suddenly writing about being the parent of a college student. Well, I happen to be the parent of a college Freshman, and I also have two teenagers getting closer to college age. When you have a blog, the point is to share what is going on in your life as well as share tips and tricks in areas you have knowledge. After this past year, I have learned a lot about being the parent of a college student, so I want to share that knowledge with anyone who may have a high school student thinking about college; and also anyone with a college student. I hope you enjoy this new series! I will try to publish one article a week about being a college parent.

Since this is the first post in this series, I wanted to start with college applications. This is something many parents have asked me about at school, and in my other children’s extra-curricular activities. How do you get organized for college application season? I know the process can be overwhelming, especially if you, the parent, did not attend college, or this is your first student going through the process. So, let’s dive into my tried-and-true tips for preparing for college application season!

It does not matter if your student is a junior getting ready to start the application process in August, or if you have an eighth grader with college aspirations. This is the time to prepare for college application season. The biggest thing we learned while filling out my daughter’s applications, is that you need to have all of your extra-curricular activities ready to write about. You need a list! Without a list, you might be looking back on your calendar and digging through drawers seeking certificates and records of activities you have forgotten about. Don’t let this happen to you. We went through it. You need a central place where all of these activities are recorded so your child can easily fill out their applications without forgetting about that weekend building a house for Habitat for Humanity or that time your child was captain of the soccer team.

The easiest way to stay organized is with a sharable spreadsheet. We created a Google spreadsheet which my husband, myself, and my daughter had access to. During the fall of her senior year, she also shared the spreadsheet with her high school counselor. It made life very easy and organized!

In this spreadsheet you need two tabs. One tab will have a list of schools your child is applying to, and the second tab will have columns for extra-curricular activities. This includes activities, awards, service hours, and leadership positions back to seventh grade. Yes, you read that right, seventh grade. My daughter had one application which asked for everything going back to seventh grade. While most applications ask for ninth grade forward, this one application allowed her to enter her activities going back to seventh grade. So be prepared!

You will want a column for each sport, each activity, volunteer work (record those hours!), leadership positions, and more. Label each activity, award, leadership position, etc., with grade level. For volunteer work, you will want to list hours by grade level too. The CSU (California State Univ.) app, UC (Univ. of California) app, Common app, and Coalition app all have different ways of asking for this information, so make sure you have everything detailed in your spreadsheet so you can easily enter this information into the application without any confusion.

The college tab will list the colleges your child plans to apply to. You can make columns with the school’s ranking, the major’s ranking, application due date, link to application, whether or not references are needed, does the school require SAT/ACT, and anything else you find you need to record.

I am not going to recommend which schools to apply to, that is a personal decision based on major and which state you live in. You may want to show your child examples of different types of schools. There are two things to look at when deciding which schools to apply to. What size school does your child want? Do they want a large campus such as Arizona State? Would a small school be a better fit for them such as the University of San Francisco? Do they want an urban environment such as UCLA located in Los Angeles? Or would a small college town be a better fit such as Penn State located in State College, PA? Is a public school or private school a better fit or OK budget-wise? Once your child considers these options, start your list of colleges to apply to!

Finances are an important part of the college list. Are you applying for financial aid? Will you be taking out loans? Are you paying cash for college? The worst thing that can happen is that your child applies to their dream school, gets in, and then you realize you cannot pay for it. Make sure the colleges on your child’s list fit within your tuition budget and payment plans. Private schools and out of state tuition can be very expensive. You may want to add a column on your spreadsheet with tuition cost. Another thing to consider is if a school is out of state, how much will travel cost? You will need to consider plane tickets, hotel, ground travel etc. So, factor those hidden costs into your budget when considering out of state schools.

That is all you really need to do to prepare for college application season, which starts in August and runs through January of your child’s senior year. Create a spreadsheet, record activities, leadership, and volunteer hours; and during Junior year, and create a list of colleges. That’s it! It is much easier than it seems, and your child will be organized for college application season! Love that!

Let me know if you have any tips, questions, or both!

Thanks for stopping by and let me know if you have any questions about the college application process. I would be happy to write about it to help you, and anyone else navigating this process.

XOXO

Cathy