What is luxury?

What is luxury? This question has been floating around online on various social media outlets with interesting definitions and discussions. In addition, it seems most people have different ideas of what luxury is, and what it means to them. So, let’s dive right into the discussion.

Oftentimes people associate brands with luxury. People will also associate certain vacation destinations with luxury. But I ask you, are those real indicators of luxury? What exactly is luxury? What defines it and what does it mean to you and me.

Advertising and marketing strategies have shaped what consumers believe to be luxury. Many people think a German Automobile, a designer watch, a designer handbag, and logowear defines luxury. In reality, those items are just expensive products with amazing marketing schemes.

True luxury to me is time, family, and comfort. I feel luxurious when surrounded by my family, drinking warm tea, and enjoying happy moments. Consumer goods do not equate to luxury for me, instead, consumer goods are fun and feel like rewards, but they don’t offer long-lasting feelings of luxury and happiness. They serve a purpose; we hope, otherwise they are a waste of money which could have been better spent.

That being said, consumer goods which help me feel luxurious include good tea, a comfortable sofa which fits my family, and soft clothing I can curl up on the couch in; oh, and a soft throw. Cozy equals comfort for me too.

When it comes to cars, I used to own a very expensive, “luxury” vehicle. It was awful. The car was always breaking down and having electronic issues. Once I sold it and purchased a car based on reliability and safety ratings, I was so happy! So now, I feel like a reliable car is more luxurious than owning a status symbol car. Plus, let’s face it, cars depreciate in value. Why dump money into a car when you can keep it in the bank, invest it, and watch it grow? That is luxury.

One form of luxury we often take for granted is living in the United States. We can safely sleep at night knowing we are not being bombed or invaded. While expensive at times, we do have high quality healthcare. Food is plentiful, and there are a lot of job opportunities. We have freedoms other countries don’t enjoy such as the freedom of religion, speech, and more. This is luxury, especially to those who don’t have what we take for granted. I see my roof, my full refrigerator, and my family as luxurious. I thank God for all of this.

What is luxury to you?

Thanks for stopping by!

XOXO
Cathy


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BAF Weekly IT List from top left: caramel top handle bag / frosted lipstick / golden hoops / Chanel nail polish / Hermes nail polish / olive dress / wide leg pants / striped espadrilles / small tote bag / north/south tote /

Comfortable, casual, and effortless. Those are the words I would use to describe this summer season. I love all the timeless styles and easy to wear silhouettes.

As we move towards the fall shopping season; as you know, retail is roughly one season ahead, continue to invest in classic pieces. When it comes to handbags, stick to neutrals, black, and dark red hues, berry hues, and olive green.

The Nordstrom Anniversary Sale will be coming up in a couple of weeks. If you are not familiar with this annual sale, it is a great time to stock up on beauty products, beauty tools, workout clothing, pajamas, underwear, and simple basics. I recommend taking a look at your closet and seeing which basics need to be added or replaced. This will help you to start making a list of what you need. The sale offers good discounts on these basics and beauty products! I will keep you posted on the best deals when the sale arrives. Love that!

Oh, did you hear? Frosted lipstick is making a comeback! I have to admit, I love frosted lipstick. So, I picked up a few frosty colors, so stay tuned! My review will hit the blog next week.

Thanks for stopping by!

XOXO
Cathy


Sunset at the beach

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wearing: striped tee (sold out, also love this tee) / earrings / black handbag / nail polish / black belt / cropped jeans / espadrilles /

There is something about watching the sunset at the beach that just hits different. You can see all the colors and stages from every possible angle. There are no obstructions. So, on a recent trip to SoCal, we stopped at Seal Beach to watch the sunset as well as check out the Strawberry Moon.

I wish I had my real camera with me. These photos were taken with my iPhone and do not do the sunset, nor the Strawberry Moon, justice. They were both beautiful and the colors were outstanding.

The older I get, I realize how beautiful nature is, and sometimes I feel like I have missed out during my lifetime at just stopping and admiring it. My life has always been full speed ahead and stopping to “smell the flowers,” as the saying goes, is really something I wish I had listened to early on. I am thankful for my daughter who loves the beach and watching the sunset. She has pulled me away from work and made me appreciate the beauty around us.

Slowing down and watching the sunset is something I need to do more of. It is something we all need to do more of. What do you feel like you need to do more of in your life?

Thanks for stopping by.

XOXO

Cathy

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